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The following is the real-life story of Heidi, a DIEP Flap patient.
September 3, 2006
Dear Dr. Allen,
In May my world as I knew it came crashing to a halt. I was sure
my breast biopsy would prove to be negative, but I was wrong. No
one can explain adequately to someone else what it's like to be
diagnosed with cancer unless they have walked that road themselves.
I have never felt so alone in my life as I did then - even though
surrounded by family and friends. I am a grandmother of four and
still raising two young children at home. My children need me. The
possibility of not being here for them sent an ache to the depths
of my being.
My first reaction to the diagnosis was "It's only a breast,
cut it off. Just save my life!" Little did I realize then that
I would soon discover how strongly my femininity was connected to
my upper anatomy being whole and feminine. Suddenly I was not only
dealing with a disease that can kill, but mourning the thought of
losing a breast as well.
After three lumpectomies my breasts were somewhat disfigured and
I was told I had to do six weeks of radiation therapy. After declining
that option, because of known and unknown side effects, I was told
my only other choice was to have a mastectomy. I knew I did not
want artificial implants, for personal as well as medical reasons.
I started researching books, articles, websites and interviewing
people who had gone before me on this journey. Surely there had
to be a better option out there for women that what I was running
across.
And the, somehow, I was linked to your website. I studied it for
days. I didn't dare call because I was afraid it was too good to
be true and I couldn't bare another letdown. Well, finally I did
call. And I was greeted by the kind voice of Michelle, who graciously
answered many questions for me. She even gave me the name and number
of a previous patient of yours to talk with. I cannot tell you what
a difference that made to me. After talking with Sally about her
experience coming to you for surgery I knew this was my answer!
She was able to help me get my mind off the cancer and focus on
looking and feeling better in the future. I talked with my husband,
made the appointment for surgery, and finally had peace of mind!
Dr. Allen, you and your team are the most amazing medical staff
I have ever dealt with - and I have had many surgeries and hospital
stays in my lifetime. I grew up going to the Mayo Clinic for the
first 43 years of my life. Neither they, nor anyone else can hold
a candle to you and your staff! You are all so nice, compassionate,
caring and humble. And your expertise as a surgeon is unsurpassed!
I thank God for leading me to your website. He knew exactly what
I needed - excellence and understanding.
Thank you so much for pioneering the DIEP flap and for using your
time and talents to help women fell whole again. Not only am I now
cancer free, but I look much better than when I first came to you.
Who could've thought that to be possible?! I fell in love with you
and your team there in Charleston and I tell everybody I can about
the wonderful work you do and what wonderful people you all are.
(If I lived there, I'd be asking to fill out an employment application!).
Dr. Allen, with all my heart I say, thank you. Thank you so very
much. God bless you!
With deep appreciation,
Heidi H.
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